“[A couple state of mind] is the capacity to be subjectively involved with both individuals, but then importantly, to be able to step back, find a third position, and try to understand what the couple are creating together. Although it’s kind of obvious in a way, because surely, that’s what a couple therapist is doing,…

“To come back to this idea of ‘groaning’ – I really like it because I think it’s a good description of the work we do, but particularly because it refers to Antonio Ferro’s concept of the absorbency of the frame, which I think is another way of referring to it, that the frame can take a…

“The theme that I found with IPSO [International Psychoanalytical Studies Organization] was that there was a common theme [in psychoanalytic training].  There was an initial phase full of terror and excitement, and then a middle phase of maybe some lethargy or apathy or disillusionment. In that middle phase, many candidates found IPSO, or IPSO found them,…

“The original papers that were written about the analyst’s unconscious being attuned to the patient’s unconscious by Hyman and Racker, in both cases they talk about this phenomenon. But both of them utter a caution, which is that one always has to take into account one’s own ‘mishegas’.  Essentially, what they’re saying is, the unconscious…

“I see the importance being in the process of working with someone to write a case report such that the case report asks the reader to open up and deepen their awareness, both of the analysis, but by definition, also of themself. One is always asked, What does this mean? Go deeper, be more open….

“I don’t know what to do about this because we do have to use clinical material. It’s the best tried and true method in which to inculcate analytic thinking in our students and supervises. On the other hand, we are so indebted to our patients and their trust in us and our responsibilities as ethical…

“During the whole course of your [psychoanalytic] training, you are laying on the couch and have your personal analysis and beforehand you don’t know where it will lead you. You start to discover corners of your unconscious psyche which you don’t want, which you are not so eager to explore. This accompanies you during the…

“I would love for the psychoanalytic world to re-embrace some of these adjunctive treatments that get to non-ordinary states of consciousness in order to enhance psychoanalytic treatment, and that includes psychedelics. The other thing I’d like to see is, I think psychoanalysts are extremely well suited to use psychedelic-assisted therapy in a non-harmful way. I…

“What is it like to be a clinician with a patient who either comes because they’re going to be dying or it happens in the treatment –  what is it like for the clinician? It’s lonely in a way because there is a lot of parallel with what the patient is going through. To me,…

“From such accounts [of Polish atrocities] we can see how incredibly emotional and how incredibly pleasurable it could be on the social level, not only for the people involved, but for the whole group, and we can really see how violence on others becomes the core of social identity, of the national identity. We tend…